FIVE FAMILY TERMS

FIVE FAMILY TERMS
Sakinah
A building made of bricks, if the bricks missing, then
the building was not only lost its beauty but also its strength.
Society is a reflection of the condition of the family. If a healthy family means a healthy society as well. If families are happy, people were happy. At least, there are five factors to form a family sakinah of them as follows.
1. In family is mawaddah and mercy.
Mawaddah is the kind of love burning, which mengebu-enthusiasm. While mercy is a kind of gentle love, ready to sacrifice and protecting loved ones. Mawaddah just about guarantee the continuity of the household. On the contrary, a blessing, not enough memeberikan warranty.
2. The relationship between husband and wife must be above based on mutual need.
Such as clothing and wear it "hunna libasun lakum wa libasun lahunna you yourselves." (Surat al-Baqara: 187) If we examine more deeply, the function of clothing at least three; close the genitalia, to protect themselves from heat and cold, as well as jewelry. Husband to wife, also must have the same function.
If the wife has something short, my husband did not tell anyone else. Vice versa. If the wife was sick, my husband immediately seek drug or brought to the doctor. Vice versa. Wives should always appear proud husband, the husband also should appear proud wife. Do not reversed, the outcome appeared to draw crowds. But when at home, appear unsightly eye.
3. Husband and wife in the mix notice things that are socially
considered inappropriate (ma'ruf), no true origin and the right.
"Wa'a syiruhunna ma'ruf bil." (Surah An Nisa: 19). The amount of dowry, maintenance, how to get along and so must pay attention to the values ​​ma'ruf. This is especially must be considered by the husband and wife who come from cultures that striking differences.
4. According to the hadith of the Prophet, the pillars of the family sakinah there were four.
a. Has a tendency to religion.
b. The young respect the old and the parents loved that
young.
c. Simple in spending.
d. Courtesy of hanging out and always do introspection.
5. Prophet also told us about the four factors are a source of
family happiness.
a. Husband and wife are faithful.
b. Salih and Shalihah.
c. Children who are devoted to his parents.
d. A healthy social environment and sustenance which is close.
Day after day must not pass. Child as the fruit of our love, grow and develop. Our steps today to determine his future. Hopefully they can become heir to what we want. As long as we are faithful to the five things above, God's help, God willing, will always overshadow our ancestry. Amen.